Bad Driving and The False Cry of Domestic Violence

It is truly a sad thing when women are truly abused by their husbands. It is also a sad thing when men are abused by their wives. BUT, define abuse. It seems to me that there are many, many things lumped into the category of abuse these days. That is, they are lumped into the category of abuse when the woman is the one crying wolf. Men could not get away with the false cries of abuse that some women resort to if they wanted to. Let me give you an example:

When my ex-wife left and cried abuse, she did it for one reason - control. EVERYTHING she has done since that day has proven this to be her motivation. When she left she made up a number of things that were so awful that I had supposedly done to her. There is one thing that is so silly that it sticks out in my mind. She said that I was abusive by stating that I did not like the way she drove the car. Yes, you heard me right. I evidently abused this poor woman by telling her that she was a bad driver. Well, guess what - SHE IS A BAD DRIVER! If I, as a man, were to holler abuse in order to try to get custody of my children and in order to get out of the marriage debt during the divorce, I would have been laughed out of the courtroom. If I would have stated that she abused me by cracking on my driving ability, I would have been put on a 72-hour hold in a psyche ward. BUT, woman who falsely accuse men of abuse do this sort of thing all of the time. Why is it allowed? The hell if I know!

The social services system is a joke. Men are deemed the eternal enemies and women the eternal victims. It is debateable as to whether court systems have become less biased toward the mother in custody cases, but one thing is sure: vindictive woman have counteracted any possibility of shared parenting by becoming the victim for their own gain. But what have they really gained? Not a damn thing. The true victims are the children who have been rendered fatherless by bogus abuse charges, bullshit counselors and psychiatrists, and centers for women and families that would not understand true family values if they were written on their hearts.

The system must be changed. Children are suffering. True victims of domestic violence are having their help and resources wasted by phonies like my ex-wife. Fathers are being torn from their families. Let's call a spade a spade. True and legitimate domestic violence is one of the most terrible things in the world. Liars, deceivers, and squanderers of resources to help real victims are just as bad. AND, you know what - A BAD DRIVER IS STILL A BAD DRIVER....