Why???

I am telling my story because I cannot hold it in anymore. I have been abused - Abused by a control-freak ex-wife who has abused and manipulated the system to get what she wants for the moment. I know there are woman who have been abused by men and they need the social services, women's programs, and legal systems to be their advocates. It is appalling what some men do to some women. BUT, it is not the norm. Those very abused women should stand with the alienated fathers, as false accusers, women who abuse the very resources which are setup for the REAL abused woman, are only making it more difficult for the hurting to get help.

I am sad that I do not feel comfortable revealing my identity on this blog. It is a very difficult thing to stand for something, yet not reveal your identity. BUT, if I reveal my identity, I am afraid it will harm my children. You see, I refuse to stand in the background and allow my kids to become fatherless because of the pride and self-centeredness of their mother. My kids need me. They need a dad. Children absolutely need their mother as well, and I would not try to alienate them from her as she has me. If I were to reveal who I am, it may hurt my court cases to pursue the ability to parent my children. One who lives to play the victim would love to be able to use such a site as this to twist and manipulate to fit her agenda.

So, I write to release frustration over the fact that I have been abused. I will not be a victim. I will fight, because my children need me to....